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Best sex chat sites

The best paid and free sex chat sites: sexting with real hosts, phone sex, and free adult chat rooms.

  1. 1

    Best overall: sexting, calls and video chat with real hosts, with free credits to start.

  2. 2

    Best for performers: text, photos and calls directly with adult performers.

    Messages from about $1.50 each; calls about $4–10/min

  3. 3

    Best phone sex: thousands of performers, with rates and feedback shown before you call.

  4. 4

    Best free chat rooms: themed rooms for roleplay and kinks, good on phones.

  5. 5

    Best moderated free chat: volunteer moderators and strict rules.

  6. 6

    Longest running: free text and video chat since 1998.

  7. 7

    Free cam and voice chat: no sign-up rooms with cam and voice built in, about 225 people online when we looked.

  8. 8

    Simplest free sexting: text only, no sign-up, human moderators around the clock.

  9. 9

    Make your own rooms: a moderated community with 125+ public rooms.

  10. 10

    Best for kinks: free rooms for BDSM, feet, cuckold and other fetishes.

How we picked

Sex chat comes in two kinds: paid sites where you message or call real hosts and performers (Arousr, SextPanther, NiteFlirt), and free chat rooms full of anonymous strangers (321SexChat, Literotica, FreeChatNow, OnlineFreeChat, LewdChat and more).

We ranked them from our reviews on how real and active the people are, what it costs, and how safe it feels. On paid sites, pay-per-message and per-minute rates add up fast, so set yourself a budget.

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