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FetLife

fetlife.com
82out of 100

FetLife has been the place the kink and BDSM community gathers online since 2008. It works like a social network rather than a dating app: profiles, discussion groups for every fetish you can name, writing and photos, and listings of local munches, parties and events.

What's included

It's free to use, paid for by optional supporter memberships.

Good

  • Free to join and use
  • Enormous kink community with groups and local events
  • Not a hookup app, so less spam

Not so good

  • Dated, text-heavy design
  • No app; browser only
  • Finding play partners takes effort

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