Victoria Milan is a dating site for married and attached people looking for affairs, running since 2010. It's run by Nextlove Limited in Malta, with payments taken by a Hungarian billing company (Digisecbilling), which is the name you'd see on a statement. Everything about it leans towards discretion.
Privacy tools
You can anonymize your profile with its "Anonymity Tools", and the "people near you" view shows only approximate locations. The site uses standard SSL encryption and says profiles are verified and the environment supervised. A travel feature lets you look for dates in other cities and countries, not only where you live.
Members
Victoria Milan claims a 53% women to 47% men ratio, over 16,000 new members a day and more than 20,000 matches daily. We can't check those figures, and as on every affair site, activity varies a lot by city, so browse your area before paying.
What it costs
Joining and browsing are free; messaging and extras need paid credits or membership, with prices shown at sign-up.
Who it suits
It suits attached people who put discretion first. Ashley Madison has the bigger name; for open hookups without the affair angle, AdultFriendFinder or Fling are simpler.
Good
- Built for discretion, with anonymous profiles
- Free to join and try
- Running since 2010
Not so good
- Messaging and extras need paid credits or membership
- Profile quality varies
- Affairs aren't for everyone