How we picked
AdultFriendFinder is the biggest name in hookup sites, with chat rooms and cams built in. People look elsewhere for a free tier that works, verified profiles, swinger or couples communities, or discreet affairs.
We ranked the alternatives on how real and active the members are, what it costs to actually talk to people, and what each is built for. Fling is the closest all-rounder; BeNaughty has the best free tier; Swingers Date Club and 3Fun suit couples; Ashley Madison is built for affairs.